Archive for 2007
What would people think if I do this? And what will they think if I do it that way?
Do you find yourself thinking twice many a time before doing anything that you are not so confident about? Do you wonder what people would think or say about you and your actions, so much so that [...]
Doesn’t it come so naturally, to compare yourself with your colleagues or friends in things that you share in common with them?
I grew up in an environment of constant comparison… be it comparison with my siblings or be it comparison with my friends or others in the same age group as me. The comparison could [...]
What are your expectations from your friends? I can imagine you sitting back and trying to figure that out… different expectations from different friends, right?
When I was younger, I too had a very strong feeling of both sharing (giving out) as well as expectations (getting in return). The word friendship had a very strong meaning [...]
Perfection was my motto… for a long time, from as early in my life as I can remember. I would aim for perfection in whatever I do, with attention to every little detail I could think of – be it at school, or at work, or at extra curricular activities. Or may be I should [...]
[Read full post...]In an earlier article, I put forth the question, “Do you lead your life, or does your life lead you?”. Here is a simple process using which you could lead your life and begin to live the life of your dreams:
1) Start afresh, leaving your current lifestyle out of thought for a while.2) Plan the [...]